You Don’t Fall In Love, You Fall In a Hole.

Do you often think, “My life would be so much easier if I could simply pick the right person to be part of my life?” The truth is, other than your family, this really isn't that hard to do.  The first thing you have to do to find the right person, is to be the right person, and to do that you need to know who you really are.

It’s important, before looking for that ideal mate, to take a long hard look at yourself and what is it you truly want.  This is the best way to ensure that the person you meet will have similar interests, attributes, and most important, values!  If you don't really know who you are at your core, and are only familiar with who you hope to be, or worse, who you hope someone else will recognize in you, it will be very difficult to find a sustaining relationship.

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Creative Blindness

To Cre·ate

1. Bring (Something) Into Existence:

2. Cause (Something) To Happen As A Result Of One's Actions.  

The beauty is, as human beings, we are all here to Create. The word "Human", in and of itself, means God’s Mind; Hu meaning God and Man coming from Mana meaning mind.

I believe the power of our mind and its ability to create is a gift and a birthright. However, many of us don't allow ourselves to utilize our full capacity.

We deny ourselves our full human creative experience by falling victim to the illusory reality that we witness in our daily lives. What we don’t realize is, once an experience is being witnessed, it is already a past event.

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Okay, you may be thinking - too simple, but truly, your whole day depends on how you greet the morning.  Each time you smile you throw a little "feel good" party in your brain. The act of smiling activates neural messaging that benefits your health and happiness. Smiling activates the release of neuro-peptides that work toward fighting off stress, and the serotonin release brought on by your smile, serves as an anti-depressant/mood lifter. If you feel

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